Why This Week’s Break from Blogging Is the Perfect Time to Fix Your Dead Bedroom

 

A Brief Pause With a Bigger Purpose

This week, there won’t be any new blog posts.

But that doesn’t mean there’s nothing for you to take action on.

As you’re reading this, I’m getting ready to hop on a flight to Toronto for an immersion event hosted by my business coach. It’s going to be an intense, transformative week focused on growth, clarity, and leveling up—not just in business, but in every area of life. Including relationships.

That’s the kind of work I do so I can come back and serve you better—whether it’s through the blog, the podcast, or the resources I’ve created for men who are serious about turning their relationships around.

So yeah, this week I’m not going to be posting new blog content. But that doesn’t mean the mission stops.

In fact, this little pause is your perfect opportunity to get serious about the one thing that’s probably been sitting on your mental to-do list for far too long: fixing your dead bedroom.

Because while I’m sharpening my sword in Toronto, you’ve got time to dive into the tools that are already changing lives. I’m talking about Get Her To F*ck You Again and the 12-Week Workbook that goes with it.

Why This Week Is a Gift in Disguise

When life slows down or shifts—even if it’s just your favorite blogger taking a few days off—it creates space. And space is where real transformation happens.

So instead of refreshing your feed for a new post, take this time and redirect your attention. Ask yourself some hard questions. What’s really happening in your relationship? Are you avoiding the truth? Are you hoping things will just magically fix themselves?

They won’t. Trust me.

Your sexless marriage or dead bedroom situation didn’t just happen overnight. It’s the result of long-term polarity decay, weak boundaries, loss of leadership, and a slow bleed of masculine energy. And it doesn’t fix itself by doing nothing.

It also doesn’t fix itself with long-winded “emotional check-ins,” pleading for more affection, or trying to talk her back into bed.

If that stuff worked, you wouldn’t be reading this blog.

What works is reclaiming your edge. Rebuilding your frame. Resetting the dynamic so she feels your presence again—emotionally, sexually, and energetically. That’s what Get Her To Fck You Again* teaches you. And that’s what the workbook walks you through step by step.

You don’t need another blog post right now. You need the plan. And now is the time to start it.

New Podcast Episodes Are Still Coming

While I’ll be off the grid a bit in terms of writing, the podcast doesn’t stop. This week, I’ve got two powerful, pre-recorded episodes dropping that I highly recommend you tune into.

Wednesday’s episode is all about 20 Things Men Should NEVER Say to Their Wife…EVER. And I’m telling you right now, it’s not what most men think. This isn’t some basic communication checklist from a marriage counselor or “happy wife, happy life” guru. This is real talk about how certain words and phrases destroy masculine polarity, erode trust, and make your wife see you more like a buddy—or worse, a child—than a man she wants to rip the clothes off of. You can watch that episode here:
Watch Wednesday’s Episode

Then on Friday, we’re diving deep into How to Enhance Attraction and Desire by Applying a Confident Mindset. This one’s for the guys who feel invisible in their own relationships. Who feel like they’re walking on eggshells. Who’ve lost the spark and don’t know how to get it back. I break down how confidence isn't just a vibe—it’s a lifestyle, a strategy, and an internal shift that makes her see you differently without you even saying a word. You don’t want to miss this one either:
Watch Friday’s Episode

A Week to Reclaim Your Masculine Leadership

Let’s be honest—if your bedroom is dead, your leadership in the relationship probably died first.

I don’t say that to shame you. I say it because I’ve lived it. And I’ve talked to thousands of men who’ve been in that same spot. They thought being a good husband meant doing more chores, being more available, listening more, being vulnerable.

They thought it meant following the script they were handed by society. But that script is garbage.

Women don’t fall in love with a servant. They fall in love with a leader.

That doesn’t mean barking orders or controlling her every move. It means leading through your energy. Through your mission. Through your presence.

It means being so dialed in to who you are and what you stand for that she can’t help but be drawn to you again.

That’s what this week can be for you. A reset. A new beginning. A line in the sand.

While I’m in Toronto upgrading my mindset and sharpening my tools, you can be doing the exact same thing—just in a different way. You can use this week to go all in on the workbook. You can start applying the frameworks from the book. You can take the first few steps toward becoming the man she respects, craves, and wants again.

What Happens If You Don’t Act Now?

Nothing.

And that’s the problem.

You’ll keep sitting in the same dynamic. You’ll keep wondering why she’s so distant. You’ll keep rationalizing that “all marriages go through phases.” You’ll keep reading articles like this, nodding your head, and then doing absolutely nothing with it.

And one day, she’s not just emotionally gone. She’s physically gone too.

I don’t want that for you. I want you to win. I want you to feel what it’s like to have her look at you with desire again. To feel like a man in your own home. To stop walking on eggshells and start walking like a king.

That’s what Get Her To F*ck You Again is about. And it’s not fluff. It’s not theory. It’s a tactical, practical guide for turning your situation around—even if it feels hopeless right now.

The guys who actually do the work see results. They don’t just fix their sex life. They fix themselves. And from that place, everything changes.

Let This Be Your Line in the Sand

So yeah, there’s no new blog content this week. But if you’ve been following me for any length of time, you already have more than enough content to change your life—if you choose to act on it.

This blog break isn’t a stop sign. It’s a green light.

Get the book.
Do the work.
Take this week seriously.

You’ll never get results from information alone. You get results from implementation. From repetition. From aligning your actions with your values and showing up as the man you know you’re capable of being.

This week is the perfect time to do it. No distractions. No excuses. No more waiting.

I’ll be back soon with new posts, new lessons, and new fire.

Until then—go lead.

And let this be the week she starts looking at you differently… because you became different.